Ever wondered why pick up lines will get girls to fall for you but often will not get women?
That’s because it is never about the pick up lines; it’s about understanding what makes a woman think of you as a confident and attractive man. Pick up lines get old and that’s why I’ve put this video here for you of me picking up and Asian-Australian lady in Sydney’s Chinatown district.

Savvy, a girl who I met and closed in one minute flat. Back in those days it was a new record for me. I called it "The One Minute Mile" because there was a mile of stuff I had to learn before I could get any woman's number in one minute.
Most guys I know do not approach Asian woman because they feel that they’re too different and that there’s a cultural divide. In reality, I think most of them deep down are conscious of being seen as racist if they were to say “they probably won’t speak English,” but sometimes I find out this is actually the case so I ask these guys why they think that.
They usually are honest enough to say “most of the Asians I know or meet don’t have a good understanding of the English language.” Because of this, they do not approach Asian women since in their minds they believe it will end up being the same kind of conversation they have with the manager of their local Chinese restaurant.
I actually happen to agree with this racist stereotype because 10 to 20 years ago the majority of Asians I met were new immigrants to Australia. Despite what people may say, I honestly believe that over the past five years since China’s boom, the level of English in Chinatown is almost always good enough to hold an effective conversation that isn’t in pigeon English.
I chose Chinatown because all the Asians I approach outside of Chinatown are not fresh citizens, they’re Australian born, so you can just pick them up as usual.
How do you pick up exotic women?
Despite that, many people are only interested in picking up within their own culture. I was one of those people for most of my life because my family insisted that I stick to ONLY Jewish girls and I did. Because I had a very small community from which to choose my partners, I was never too successful with women in my youth.
Once I hit 16 I realized that idea was insane. I started using pick up lines to get girls but they were so cheesy, stupid and obvious that they really could only be used as jokes. Everyone knows everyone if you’re an observant Jewish person in Sydney. Just like any religion, cult or pastime it usually has an incestuous community aspect to it that can easily suck you in to other people’s drama.
I started approaching black women when I first realized that intermarriage is crap because no rabbi, priest, parent or friend could ever convince me that their views should dictate who I love and don’t love. Psychologists, neuroscience, my heart and MOST importantly my own research and what I have seen proven true consistently will be the only things that sway me. In other words, I follow science, not God nor a man or woman who has authority by an organization (business, church, cult, etc.) nor a friend who’s trying to push his/her own personal anti-assimilation sentiments into my life because his/her views aren’t things they’re proud to state outright since even though they think them, they know that saying them sounds racist.
You have one minute to get her number before her dad returns!
So, here’s a video I filmed two years ago and you can see on screen the bare-bones tips I was working on back in my early days (two years prior to even being bothered to go out and film what I do). It is by no means out of date, though all the commentary you see is very technique based and not very succinct.
In other words, you will have to learn each little trick and remember a heap of things (that’s how I used to do it). Later I researched the commonalities of what makes all these things effective and then focused on helping guys to keep it simple. That way, they never run out of things to say. Too much to remember will cause you to “blank out” while using a pick up line, being a pick up artist or using any form of social or interpersonal trick or tip.
Pick up in one minute tips and tricks
That’s all they are: tips and tricks, not real solutions. The real solutions created the tips and tricks. You can see that I use them in this video when picking up an Asian girl in under one minute who was with her DAD! It’s insane, but not really (you’ll be able to do it too just by watching this video, which kills how “insane” it is because it’s really very simple).


[..YouTube..] man i last night i got a number using gambits… but it’s fake
man i last night i got a number using gambits… but it’s fake
hey just askin., what do you do after you get the number…
i mean, you must have heaps of numbers, do you follow through with some and just deny others.. ?
[..YouTube..] Can you write here what gambits are?? I can´t understand english at 100% yet, but your vids are really interesting.
Hey can anybody write down this pornstar name gambit? I listened to the vid but couldn’t understand everything. The first name of your what?? And the second part is…..? Thanks a lot…
[..YouTube..] man he pulled the girl with a man purse.. impressive
man he pulled the girl with a man purse.. impressive
Name of your first pet (firstname), name of your first street (surname).
[..YouTube..] U are God and we are your followers. !!!!!
U are God and we are your followers. !!!!!
i asked this one girl out at mall and she said no and since then i am very much shy to even talk to one.
i said hello and she said hi then i said i think u r really cute and she smiled and then i asked if she would like to have dinner with me and she said she is with her friends and then i panicked and she just went away. what possibly i could have done to manipulate the situation??
this is before i get to know about u !
i need mad help this girl i like pull the friend card just this week but i think i have a chance if i take it slow how do i approach this horrible situation
hey T,
I pretty much found your videos today and I am pretty damn impressed. I’ve spent alot of the day just reading the articles, such as the popular one and this one, i found out about you by watching a video on youtube. Anyway, I’m writing with a bit of a problem. Your methods seem solid and the way you deliver them better. The problem i see myself confronting while trying to replicate it is the fact I can have times when I’m not that witty. Yeah, i can be funny, in fact thats the quality my friends pick out as a standout characteristic of mine, but having to answer on my toes i find can be tricky. Question is does that come with time? How do i develop this skill? I am asking as this seems to stand out in your technique. I am quite young, I have just left school and am 18, which may help you answer.
Cheers for any help you can give.
Nick, I find that I become more witty or able to respond to questions on my toes when I’m more comfortable with the person. So I would suggest just talking to more of your friends that are girls and just start socializing more and more with females and eventually you’ll get comfortable enough to have this trait with almost anyone. So, yes I think just exposing yourself to more women will develop this trait.
Hi T,
There is a nice girl at my work, she started chasing me from day 1. I ignored her, she kept coming closer and closer, even working at the same department. It was a nice department we laughed a lot and she always showed interest and you should have seen her look, her big blue eyes, I made everybody laugh and I made friends and I’m respected by all off them.
A few months later she started acting dissapointed, and a few weeks after that I’m transferd to another place to work. After that I replied on her e-mail and asked her out and she refused,since then we have no contact. I’m dating another girl at this moment, What can i do about the first one?
Hey so after I saw your videos I was like ‘what the hell’ and went to go take a shot at some women that were at the mall that day….I got shutdown right after i said can I borrow you for 30 seconds its pretty itimating thing to say or do when the girl is with another person and it doesnt work 100% of the time…anyways I need help coming up with things to say to women because after the conversation starts im good money but I need help STARTING ONE PLEASE SOMEONE HELP
I enjoy your videos. After reading popular PUA books, your game sheds light on a new perspective. I enjoy direct game far more than indirect game.
[..YouTube..] This guy is pretty good. A gambit is applicable to many instances, sales, jobtalks, etc. in which you need to build rapport. The best way to build rapport, fast, is, in my experience, to smile, keep “friendly” eye contact all the time, and let her do some talk.
This guy is pretty good. A gambit is applicable to many instances, sales, jobtalks, etc. in which you need to build rapport. The best way to build rapport, fast, is, in my experience, to smile, keep “friendly” eye contact all the time, and let her do some talk.
Thank for the videos, they are great. You show us that in order to get a girl, and it is true one needs to show confidence and a good sense of humor.
[..YouTube..] Really good material man, some of the best I have seen on youtube. Very real, straight up stuff.
Really good material man, some of the best I have seen on youtube. Very real, straight up stuff.
[..YouTube..] lol my pornstar name is Sylvester Carlson
lol my pornstar name is Sylvester Carlson
hello, every body!
what do you think if i meet a lesbian and she not interested in men…..do you think your way work with them?
Hahaha – are you serious? Being gay is being gay – nothing in the world can change that if that’s how you naturally are.
Will these also work on women of a diferent race?
[..YouTube..] WHATS THE PROB THAT SHE GAVE U A FAKE PHONE NUMBER
a nice video
[..YouTube..] man it would be amazing if you added subs to your videos…if you upload any more
man it would be amazing if you added subs to your videos…if you upload any more
[..YouTube..] the security guard (or was that her dad?) was just about to cock block you…lucky!
the security guard (or was that her dad?) was just about to cock block you…lucky!
[..YouTube..] It seems like the European women are much nicer than American women
It seems like the European women are much nicer than American women
you see a girl you like,whats the first thing you go to her and say
I used your technique in this video and I got 2 phone numbers in under 10 minutes awesome way you put it all together Thx
[..YouTube..] Getting a number is Nothing
nice video…but i get fake numbers for the most part.What to do?
[..YouTube..] holy crap!!! you are amzing man. XD
holy crap!!! you are amzing man. XD
Hi Friend,
I am an Indian.I got a girl friend in my class.I speak with her little but not so much.And my question is how can I kiss her….????
[..YouTube..] Did you see it?He nailed it, he nailed it again. Damm bastard! You’re good, you’re very good, young man.
Did you see it?He nailed it, he nailed it again. Damm bastard! You’re good, you’re very good, young man.
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My girlfriend left me for the parking attendant. Does that make me a bad person?
I don’t mind that so much, but she has my wallet.
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