Kissing – A Step By Step Guide For Men
By the end of this article you will have a basic understanding of how to kiss a girl, get rid of your first kiss nerves and lock in a successful snog. The process of how to kiss a girl that you are about to learn has been tested over three hundred times and has been used for over five years by top dating and etiquette coaches.
It’s important when learning how to kiss a girl to recognize the physical signs. You do not have to be a human genius to calculate what body language means. Often it is as simple as reminding yourself to be aware of her body signals and knowing a few key signs.
How do you know when to kiss her?
The biting of the bottom lip or even the slight licking of the lip is often done subconsciously. This is great for an aspiring kisser to know as it is one of the most obvious and potent signs you can get.
When both men and women get attracted and physically aroused the blood rushes to a few key regions: the lips, the genitalia and the breasts. These are evolutionary hardwires that we’ve retained from millions of years ago that make it just as easy for a male to sense if a woman is in heat as the rest of animal kingdom. When learning how to kiss a girl these signs become very important.
Unlike animals we can’t just drop our pants and compare our bits around nightclubs until something bites. We can simply only work with the lips, where blood flows when aroused.
They then tingle slightly because of the rush of blood into them, which expands them and makes us bite them slightly to dissipate the blood and the tingling feeling. Be careful when using this indicator, however, as our tests have shown that it can be flagged at mealtimes and if there are multiple potential suitors interacting with the target.
The signs to look for when a woman wants you
There are another four signs of which to take note when learning how to kiss a girl: Preening rituals, posture, eye contact and types of physical escalation. All four are too in-depth to discuss here. However, you will need to be aware that physical escalation is the key to the brief process you’re going to learn.
Physical escalation rarely lies. If you know how to build upon your physical contact, consistently increasing your advances from a touch on the hand, a hug, a hand on the leg or even a stroke of the face you’re getting people more comfortable with your “intimate zone.”
Staying in the intimate zone
Your “intimate zone” is not some vague concept that requires you to open yourself to Buddha’s sacred energies. Quite simply it is an established psychological principle researched by Allan Pease who states that there are three zones of face-to-face interaction: the antisocial zone (approximately two meters away from your target), the social zone (500 centimeters to one meter) and the intimate zone (less than 500 centimeters). People aren’t usually comfortable having people to whom they’re not attracted or with whom they have little rapport into their intimate zone. This is exactly what we’ve taught at seduceinseconds.com for five years. Assuming you have something mentioned above going in your favor is all you need to be successful kiss-wise.
Get her used to you being in her intimate zone. We have a video on our site which shows just how I entered a girl’s intimate zone by acting as if I wanted to say something quietly in her ear. This is a very basic trick that works above all the others for because her view of you is then altered.
Moving in to “tell her something” reduces the distance between you two from the intimate zone to the seduction zone, which is less than 15 centimeters away from the target. This distance being reduced preemptively reduces your rejection risk from 90 percent to 10 percent.
Most kisses do not fail because people do not want to be kissed. Most kisses, according to our tests, fail due to the awkwardness before the kiss, the stalling and finally the painful journey into the kiss which seems to take a lifetime.
Brain seconds are much longer than real seconds and if your target sees you moving in slowly to kiss you, her brain will have more than enough time to react and think of all the reasons why or why not to kiss you. Big mistake.
The brain often thinks of 70 percent more negative thoughts than positive. Depending on someone’s insecurities which can be expounded by his/her mood, context or past dating history you can easily create some unnecessary hurdles for yourself.
In reality you, will be springing the kiss on them. There are only a few schools of thought on how to kiss a girl, however, few have recorded them and put them on their sites like Seduce In Seconds has. Your success lies in catching her partially off guard before her brain has a chance to think about WHY she should or most likely shouldn’t kiss you. Her physical instincts and sexual “on buttons” haven’t been pushed until your place your mouth and hands on your target.
Even if they’re only mildly attracted to you, many people’s sexual “go” buttons are only pushed once they have been physically aroused. This in itself has been proven to cause sweeping rushes of dopamine into the brain (described as “liquid love” or “brain cocaine”).
Additionally it take the kiss journey from 500 centimeters to almost 10 centimeters, which means if this is the most risky time for getting rejected, you’ve just reduced it by 500 percent. So, in reality, your kiss does not need to have any prerequisites for attraction by the other party.
In effect this can work with attraction that has already been created, which makes your job easier, but can also work as a stand alone technique that brings all the “physical go” that you need to kick start attraction all by itself.
Now this does not work every time. Over the years we have determined that this has a 90 percent success rate with work mates, strangers who have been kissed in under 15 minutes, old friends and exes.
We will never waste your time by giving you unqualified information. In fact, we have some hidden camera videos on http://seduceinseconds.com showing you for free how a woman was kissed in 15 minutes off the street using this technique.