All men want the woman to make the first move. After copious amounts of testing on over 239 women in a variety of different contexts and countries, our team at Seduce In Seconds has cracked the art of getting a girl to kiss you.
In this article you will learn how to get a girl to kiss you by using teasing, rewarding and playfulness. This tested method has proven to work 80 percent of the time where within 15 minutes she will be trying to kiss you.
The Issue: Women hate making the first move
Girls do not like to be the ones to make the first move. It makes them feel cheap, easy and worst of all it detracts from you being the Alpha male who takes proud responsibility for all initiations.
Additionally this is based on the art of push/pull. Push her away too much and you will seem indifferent, disinterested and even arrogant; Pull her in too much and you will be perceived as suffocating and needy.
How to tease and reward her
Playfully tease her/push her away. It is automatically assumed that you as the man want to get physical more than she does. This is wrong. Girls go about it differently and you need to change the tone. Through teasing her playfully, you’re showing that you’re confident enough to take risks that the doormat “nice guy” does not. He would never risk putting her offside, but you need to because you’re trying to change the social dynamic so that she is the one pursuing you.
Frame her as being the one who wants you. You do this via step one, teasing. Pick up on actions or things she says which are normal parts of life but playfully tease her that she’s doing them to seduce you. E.g.
Emily: “Looks like we’re out of drinks, do you want to get another?”
You: “I don’t know. I’m out here with a strange girl who’s trying to get me get me drunk. I know your plan and I don’t want to end up in a bathtub with my kidneys missing and on eBay by the morning.”
Emily: “No, I’m not that evil anymore.”
You: “Of course, the hunter has evolved. I’m sure it’s just my innocence that entices you.”
Congratulations, you’ve now begun painting her as the initiator and pursuer.
Pull her in. Reward her for complying with your wishes (painting her as the hunter) and for anything she now does that is in line with the behavior you want her to exhibit more. Unfortunately controlling the behavior of both men and women is as simple as dog training. For example:
You: “Yep, another drink is a good suggestion. It’s about time you took charge of this night out.”
Emily: “What do you mean? I was always in charge of this night out.”
This is perfect because she’s now accepted the role you’ve created for her as the “fake leader,” but what you’re going to do next will provide her with a perplexing predicament.
Step 4: At this point you need to start escalating the situation sexually. Now that she has donned the role of the leader she still wants to be a lady and not come across as cheap. However, she is the “leader” now so socially the onus is more on her to say what happens and when.
This may seem like an unnecessary release of power on your part but you were always the one with the power; she just thinks she has it. In our online course we talk more about how to sexually escalate a situation using a repetition of the teasing and rewarding process as well as a physical process.
Hints on how to kiss her:
You need to make sure you were touching her from the outset. Touch early and touch often. It sets you up as a “touchy” guy who is comfortable gesturing and using his body to support his verbal cues. This is not a bad thing because all you need is for her to be okay with small touches like on the side of the arm, side of the thigh or even sitting in close proximity to her. You then build these up in accordance with your verbal cues (teasing/rewarding/framing).
In short, it’s like a ladder. You’re consistently climbing higher one step at a time and each step essential to knowing how to get a girl to kiss you.Your 15 minutes to her jumping you starts once all four of these steps have been completed once.
In the next 15 minutes you will have the chance to repeat this process up to 30 times. Luckily you will only need to do it four times for it to have an 80 percent chance of success.
She will start to lean more towards you and reciprocate the touching. Eventually her face, body and lips will make their way closer to you for the kiss. All you need to do now is sit back and wait until she kisses you or until she gives you such obvious hints and gets close enough that you would look like a moron for not recognizing the signs and she gets disinterested.
This is just a basic rundown of one of our more advanced processes on how to get a girl to kiss you but they are all simple enough for you to use anywhere, any time on any woman. Best of all we back all our processes with our 100 percent money back guarantee – check out our online course for men HERE. You should also take a look on our related article: How To Kiss a Girl.