WHAT WILL YOU LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:
What Are Grabs?
A grab is the term I use to describe when thoughts unrelated to the one you are already talking about pop into your head. You need to work past the idea that one topic needs to relate to or logically follow on from another. To improve your conversation skills you need to grab a thought the moment it comes into you head and work it into your conversation to continually ride the wave of interest.
The grabs are not so much a process but rather a few lines you can use to fluidly integrate the new topic of conversation into the one you are having, or to end the current topic whilst they are still interested in it. Perhaps the person had a story they wanted to tell you, perhaps they were in the middle of discussing a topic and wanting to reach a conclusion, it does not matter.
Ending these topics will cause the other party to be politely frustrated. This is a good frustration, it means Read More