22 May

Being Counterintuitive: How to get women instantly more attracted to you

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WHAT WILL YOU LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • To Be Different From Other Men
  • How To React When You Get a Woman’s Number
  • Training Yourself To Be Counterintuitive and Playful
  • How To Be Sarcastic

Be Different From Other Men

Ever had a night where you felt like the king, you could do anything with anyone and get away with it yet next weekend you were using the same lines on the same people but you got nowhere. What will always differentiate you from the average male is making a conscious effort to be counterintuitive during your interactions with women.

The underlying premise of how to talk to women is this: you need to differentiate yourself from every other man out there by teasing women. It helps to do this playfully so they are not fully sure as to whether you are serious or not.

How To React When You Get a Woman’s Number

An example may be when you get a woman’s number. The average man would either say “thank you” or something along the lines of “I’ll call you tomorrow at eight, I’d really like to continue our conversation about Mexican food / going overseas / the effect of tariffs Read More

15 May

The 8 Characteristics You Need to Demonstrate to Attract Women

Day 2 Creating The Attraction From Your Brains
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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • Attraction Just Works Differently Than You Might Think
  • The 8 Traits That Are Going to Help You!
  • Go and Practice Them

Attraction Just Works Differently Than You Might Think

Have you ever wondered why men who have nothing going for them can attract hot women? (And no, paying for the drinks is not the correct answer.) Have you ever seen a beautiful woman with an average looking guy? He may have been bald, losing his hair, short, fat with a third arm growing out of his forehead and strangely enough he is still able to have a smoking little bunny as a girlfriend or FB (friend with benefits). This is because attraction is created in our minds by what society tells us is attractive.

Take a look at any paintings done over 200 years ago. The women are, by contemporary standards, overweight, pasty and plain. No one now is attracted to that because society’s perceptions of what is attractive have changed. Ultimately “beauty” is a social construct which is subject to change. Regardless of your looks you can create attraction with the woman you are interested in (the target). Just as society tells Read More

08 May

Sorry Should Be The Hardest Word To Say

Saying Sorry
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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • The Power of Words
  • The ‘I am sorry’-mentality
  • Perceived Weaknes


The Power of Words

Words can be powerful things. Someone who has a depression might be constantly saying to themselves that life is useless, not worth living. They will use these words in their everyday speech as well, and in doing so they convey negative emotions just by speaking and can also make other people around them depressed just through their choice of words. Someone who avoids social situations would tell themselves they are not the extroverted type and they can never compete with upbeat party people. They say this to themselves so convincingly that they do not even bother to go out and try.

A Buddhist monk would continually free his mind of all these thoughts through meditation and prayers affirming the beauty of life. In this instance I do not want you to dwell on your internal dialogue specifically but rather how the things you say to others can affect your own self-esteem and the way other people see you.

The ‘I am sorry’-mentality

Constantly apologizing is one of the things that can keep you stuck in a mindset where you Read More

01 May

You Are Responsible For Your Own Anxiety:The Power Of Positive Thinking

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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • You Are Creating Your Own Anxiety
  • Stop Your Negative Thoughts With Pattern Interrupt
  • 2 Great Techniques For Pattern Interrupt

You Are Responsible For Your Own Anxiety

We all have negative voices in our heads repeating certain ideas and perceptions we have about ourselves over and over. Each time an emotion is created from these thoughts our brain sends an electrical signal from one part to another. Too many repetitions of one negative emotion can see this connection forming a solid path in our thought processes and is quite difficult to avoid. Our thought processes can begin to be likened to a record on a turntable. The record has grooves and once you start the needle on the record it begins to follow the same path every time and same music will play verbatim again and again.

A lot of the time this is the wrong song playing in your head. A man can stand in a night club all night in fear of approaching a woman at the bar. Every time he takes a step forward in her direction he feels inadequate because he feels he is not good looking enough to have Read More

24 Apr

The Unseeable Reality Behind Mindsets: 5 Exercises Revealed

How to change your mindset
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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • The Simple Way To Train Your Nerves
  • Start Understanding and Using Power Words
  • Preparation Is Everything
  • Lead Your Brain The Right Way

Visualization is a powerful technique for becoming better at a task without actually having to complete it.

Our mind and body can react to simple thoughts and fantasies in much the same way as it responds to actual events. Many psychologists and biochemists believe the nervous system cannot tell the difference between real or perceived threats, you produce the same chemical reactions in your brain when you dream or visualize as you do in reality.

Fact: Two surgeons, Terry Orlick & Judy McDonald, would vividly imagine themselves cutting through fat and muscles in order to be more prepared for an upcoming operation. They would imagine certain setbacks and how they would regain composure and overcome them which overall dramatically improved their success rates when put in the real situation.

Using this powerful technique is just one of the many free dating tips we share with you. With the exercises below you can help prepare yourself for any social situation.

The Simple Way To Train Your Nerves

Exercise:

The more real your Read More

17 Apr

Change The Way Your Anxiety Works

Within a Hand's Reach
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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • How it all started to change
  • Sincerely saying what they need
  • The real smile


How it all started to change

Tantric sex instructor and close friend, Ven helped me get past some serious approach anxiety and sincerity issues whilst we were doing a pickup workshop together a while back. The exercise was to stop 60 random women in the space of two hours and pay them a compliment not associated with sex.

He was getting some of the most positive reactions from a myriad of gorgeous women yet for some reason when I delivered the same compliment e.g. “Excuse me that is the funkiest handbag I’ve seen all day” they looked at me like “Thanks but please don’t cut me into little bits”.

Sincerely saying what they need

Ven, having done some acting in his time began to teach me how to pay a compliment and make it sound sincere even when you mean none of it. Let us take the handbag example; one girl I approached had an ordinary handbag with nothing really interesting on it. I visualized her handbag as one that was bright green with feathers all over it and Read More

10 Apr

Being Alpha Shouldn’t Be Enough For You

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WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS GUIDE:

  • Acting Un-reactive In Reactive Situations
  • What Would Brad Pitt Do?
  • Brad Pitt vs. Tupac The Battle of Unreactivness
  • What Does It Take To Be Unreactive?

It has been said over and over again in the pick-up artist community that you should be alpha. That is important, of course, but at the same time, that same sense of urgent alphaness can lower your value.

A person,can get so caught up in being alpha that they become over-reactive to everything. Any disrespect thrown in his face becomes an immediate threat to his alphaness that must be neutralized.

This can be seen in bullies, ghetto thugs, and beach surfer Alpha Male Of the Group that get near violent when you tool them back.

Acting Unreactive in Reactive situations

The bottom line is that you can be alpha, a leader and dominant, but if you’re reactive you’re still insecure as fuck, and it shows. You’ll get women, but you bet your ass they will be low quality women. What kind of woman wants a guy who can’t control himself? Think of a guy who feels his time at the top is so temporary that he must protect Read More